I was part of an integration where one company had a strong, long-standing heritage grounded in conservative values and a close-knit community culture (Mormons), while the other had a more modern, fast-paced, and informal way of working. Both companies had great people and shared the same end goals, but early on, we could feel the disconnect in how people communicated, made decisions, and even how they gave feedback.
It wasn’t about right or wrong—it was about awareness and respect. Simple things like meeting cadence, tone in emails, or who was expected to speak up in a room started to matter more than we realized. There were a few missteps early on where assumptions were made, and it created tension—not because anyone meant harm, but because there wasn’t enough time spent upfront understanding each other’s operating norms.